Parents/Guardians hold large
leverage in terms of what they teach their children and accordingly how their
children grow up as adults. Islam, therefore, hold parents responsible for
steering their children’s upbringing according to the guidelines of the Quran and
the Prophet’s (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) traditions.
The Prophet (s) said:
“Allah
(SWT) will ask every caretaker about the people under his care, and the man
will be asked about the people of his household” (Nasa’i, Abu Da’ud).
Allah (SWT) states in the Quran
about the need to raise families in the light of their end destination, which
may be translated in the following words:
“O you who believe! Ward
off yourselves and your families against a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and
stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who disobey not,
(from executing) the commands they receive from Allah, but do that which they
are commanded” (Tahrim 66:6).